Friends dating your crush
Megan, my best girlfriend in college, assisted me in many schemes, trying to help me get with her sorority sisters.
We'd literally sit down with one of those composites with all of their pictures and I'd pick out the cute ones.
Be honest, if you weren't back in your sleepy town, and were somewhere with more options, would this guy being with another girl really stress you so much?
Now he's dating this girl, she's posting obnoxious "I love you" mush on his facebook wall, and I can't stop kicking myself.
Even if you're not afraid of destroying the friendship by taking the next step, you still hold back because you know the other person sees you as a friend.
While you needn’t go out of your way to avoid him/her, just don't make yourself visible all the time.And, because we live in this voyeuristic -reading world, people ask why you aren't dating, or suggest that you should be dating.In fact, when I went to Megan's wedding, many of her relatives pulled me aside and said: "We always thought you'd be the one walking down that aisle with her." I guess Megan never told them of my fears of commitment and my frustrating immaturity.Maybe I'm lame, but I've crashed in bed with many crushes that were just friends, without making a move. It really sucked when the girl felt safe enough with me as a friend to cuddle while we slept. They Might Want One of Your Friends In a painful variation of Romantic Confidante, your crush might end up liking one of your friends they meet through you.Because they just think of you as a friend, they will tell you and solicit advice.